I wholeheartedly agree sis....I don't think it "just boils down to laziness" at all. I think there are many and varied reasons why some may be having trouble getting back to in person.
I know many here and in other congregations that I know of were absolutely terrified the last nearly 3 years. This time has done a real psychological number on SO many. For some that may never be reveresed and they are just more comfortable being on Zoom. My son, daughter in law and I have a commercial cleaning business so our lives never really changed....we still had to get out and go to work as we always had. I've only been to one in person meeting since we went back to that....my hubby was on hospice with end stage kidney failure so I didn't leave him much other than to run to work. He passed in November and now our whole family is dealing with grief and quite honestly (even though we are encouraged to be around the friends) I'm just not there yet. My body and mind are EXHAUSTED and I'm trying to take care of myself the best I can. For right now that means not over stimulating myself cuz' it tanks my adrenals. Jehovah knows. He is the one that matters. Stayed healthy all during the last nearly 3 years (hadn't been sick since Feb 2018) and then wouldn't you know it....our whole family got sick after my husband's visitation. I wasn't HORRIBLY sick but felt rotten and was so exhausted. Took 2 full weeks to start to gain some stamina. So given the fact that there is SO much going around our area right now (both influenzas, strep, covid, other respiratory viruses, RSV, stomach stuff.....) we are choosing to be cautious. When at meetings there is so much hugging (which I've always been a big hugger) I've considered just speaking up and saying "for right now I'm not hugging" but I don't want to come across rude.