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"While we try to teach our children all about life, Our children teach us what life is all about." ─ Angela Schwindt I often think about this quote when I look at my son. Helping to build faith in a child’s heart is probably the toughest challenge you will ever face. When you look back, you'll see that they have taught you so much as well. Patience, endurance, "breath in and breath out" but also the love and forgiveness for mistakes made. At the same time when we grew older, we became more serious, focused on work, family, our faith... and our children bring us back to see things from a child's viewpoint. Appreciating how simple things can be. Talk about Jehovah every day when you are doing things with your children; it's so rewarding. (Deuteronomy 6:5-8)

Currently, I am in the middle of having to make a very important decision. I definitely want to make a good decision that pleases Jehovah! But I realize that sometimes we start off with a proper motive of wanting to make a good decision but we may never finish COMPLETING what we started. So I found an outstanding WT article that focuses on exactly this, helping us to “complete what we started to do”! In order for me to fully identify and grasp the various points in this article, I transformed the article into an “outline”. Likely because of all the training we have received in preparing talks, my mind just tends to prefer outlines, as these really help me to easily and quickly identify vital points and examples. But almost everything in this outline is directly from the WT article, the examples, the scriptures, even all the words! I only added a few sub-titles to help me to make a full outline and I just added the scriptures that were cited. I just finished this outline now, but then after saving it, I thought maybe others might also like such an outline when wanting help to make good decisions and trying to complete them. If so, here below is a copy. On the original version I have pertinent words/phrases/subtitles “color coded” which helps me to remember these important points. So if you would like a color coded version let me know and I will send you a PM. “Complete what you started to do.” 2 COR. 8:11 (w19 November p. 26 ) JEHOVAH • allows us to choose our course in life. • He teaches us how to make good choices • He helps us to succeed when we make decisions that please him. (Ps. 119:173) “May your hand be ready to help me, Because I choose to obey your orders” STRUGGLES WE MAY HAVE COMPLETING WHAT WE STARTED • Even when we make a wise decision, however, we may struggle to complete what we started. • EXAMPLES: ◦ A young brother decides to read the entire Bible. He does well for a few weeks but then stops for some reason. ◦ A sister decides to serve as a regular pioneer but keeps pushing back the date when she will begin. ◦ A body of elders makes a unanimous decision to be more involved in shepherding those in the congregation but after many months has not acted on it. • These situations differ, but they have something in common. Those decisions were not fully implemented. • First-century Christians in Corinth faced a similar challenge. • Note what we can learn from them. A BIBLE EXAMPLE OF NOT COMPLETING WHAT WAS STARTED The CORINTHIAN Congregation • About 55 C.E., the Corinthians made an important decision. • They learned that their brothers in Jerusalem and Judea were suffering hardships and poverty and that other congregations were collecting money to help them. Out of kindness and generosity, the Corinthians resolved to donate to this effort and asked the apostle Paul how they could help. He sent instructions to the congregation and appointed Titus to assist in the collection. (1 Cor. 16:1; 2 Cor. 8:6) • A few months later, though, Paul learned that the Corinthians had not followed through. • As a result, their gift would not likely be ready in time for it to be taken to Jerusalem along with the contributions from the other congregations.—2 Cor. 9:4, 5. • The Corinthians had made a good decision, and Paul commended them for their outstanding faith and their earnest desire to be generous. • But he also had to encourage them to complete what they had started. (Read 2 Corinthians 8:7, 10, 11.) “This is for your benefit, seeing that already a year ago you not only initiated the action but also showed your desire to do it. So now, also complete what you started to do, so that your readiness to act may be completed according to the means you have available” LESSONS FOR US: • Their experience teaches us that even faithful Christians may struggle to implement a good decision. • Like the Corinthians, we may find it difficult to carry out our decisions. Why? ◦ Because of imperfection, we may simply procrastinate. ◦ Or unforeseen events might make it impossible for us to follow through on what we had decided to do. (Eccl. 9:11; Rom. 7:18) • How can we review a decision and discern if we should adjust it? • And how can we be more effective at completing what we start? DIFFERENT TYPES OF DECISIONS • Some important decisions we would never change. • EXAMPLES: ‣ We stick to our decision to serve Jehovah. (Matt. 16:24) “If anyone wants to come after me, let him disown himself and pick up his torture stake and keep following me” ‣ We are determined to be faithful to our marriage mate. (Matt. 19:6) “So that they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has yoked together, let no man put apart.” • Other decisions, though, may need to be adjusted. Why? Because circumstances change. • What steps can help us to make the best decisions possible? BEFORE MAKING A DECISION 1. Pray for wisdom a. “If any one of you is lacking in wisdom, let him keep asking God, for he gives generously to all.” (Jas. 1:5) b. In some respects, we are all “lacking in wisdom.” c. So rely on Jehovah both when making a decision and when reviewing that decision. d. Jehovah will then help you to make wise choices. 2. Do thorough research a. Consult God’s Word! b. Read the publications of Jehovah’s organization c. Talk to people whom you can trust. (Prov. 20:18) d. Such research is vital before making a decision to change jobs, to move, or to choose appropriate education to help you support your ministry. 3. Analyze your motives a. Our motives matter to Jehovah. (Prov. 16:2) b. He wants us to be honest in all things. c. So when we make decisions, we too want to be honest with ourselves and with others about our motives. d. If we were not completely honest, we would likely have difficulty sticking to the decision. 1. EXAMPLE: a young brother may decide to become a regular pioneer. After some time, however, he struggles to fulfill the hour requirement and he finds little joy in his ministry. He may have thought that his main motive for pioneering was his desire to please Jehovah. Could it be, though, that he was primarily motivated by a desire to please his parents or some person he admired? 2. EXAMPLE: Consider the situation of a Bible student who decides to give up smoking. At first, he struggles, doing well for a week or two, but then he gives in to the urge to smoke. Finally, though, he is successful! His love for Jehovah and his desire to please Him have helped him to conquer the habit.—Col. 1:10; 3:23. 4. Be specific a. The more specific you are, the more likely you are to complete what you start. 1. EXAMPLE: You may have decided to read the Bible more often. But if you do not have a specific schedule in mind, you may not achieve your objective. 2. EXAMPLE: Or the elders in a congregation may decide to shepherd the flock more often, but after some time, they have not followed through on that decision. To be successful, they could ask such questions as these: “Have we identified the brothers and sisters who could especially benefit from more shepherding? Have we set a specific time to visit them?” 5. Be realistic a. None of us have the time, resources, or energy to do everything that we would like to do. b. So be realistic and reasonable. c. When necessary, you may need to change a decision that was beyond your ability to accomplish. “A time to search and a time to give up as lost; A time to keep and a time to throw away” (Eccl. 3:6) d. Suppose, though, that you 1. reviewed your decision 2. adjusted it as needed 3. and feel that you can implement it. e. NEXT: Consider 5 steps that can help you to finish what you start. STEPS TO IMPLEMENT YOUR DECISION 1. Pray for the strength to act a. God can give you “the power to act” and carry out your decision. (Phil. 2:13) b. So ask Jehovah for his holy spirit to give you the power you need. c. Continue praying even if an answer to your request seems to be delayed. d. As Jesus said: “Keep on asking, and it [holy spirit] will be given you.”—Luke 11:9, 13. 2. Create a plan a. “The plans of the diligent surely lead to success, But all who are hasty surely head for poverty” (Pr 21:5) b. To complete any project you start, you need a plan. c. Then you need to work according to that plan. d. Likewise, when you make a decision, list the specific steps you intend to follow to implement that decision. Breaking larger jobs into smaller tasks can help you track your progress more easily. e. EXAMPLE: Paul encouraged the Corinthians to set something aside for their contribution “on the first day of every week” rather than wait and try to collect funds when he arrived. (1 Cor. 16:2) f. Breaking large jobs into small tasks can also keep you from feeling overwhelmed. g. A clear plan that you put in writing can help you turn your decisions into action. (1 Cor. 14:40) h. EXAMPLE: Bodies of elders are directed to assign an elder to record each decision of the body of elders, including who is assigned to follow through and the suggested date for completion. Elders who follow this direction are more likely to carry out their decisions. (1 Cor. 9:26) i. You could try to do something similar with your personal affairs. j. EXAMPLE: For example, you could prepare a daily to-do list and arrange the items in the order you intend to handle them. This can help you not only to complete what you start but also to get more done in less time. 3. Exert yourself a. It takes effort to follow your plan and complete what you start. (Read Romans 12:11.) “Be industrious, not lazy.*(Footnote: “Do not loiter at your business.”) Be aglow with the spirit. Slave for Jehovah” b. Paul told Timothy to “continue applying” himself and to “persevere” in becoming a better teacher. That advice applies equally to other spiritual goals.—1 Tim. 4:13, 16. 4. Manage your time wisely a. Choose a time to implement your decision and stick to it. b. Avoid waiting for the perfect time to act; the perfect time is not likely to come. (Eccl. 11:4) “The one who watches the wind will not sow seed, and the one who looks at the clouds will not reap” c. Be careful not to allow less important things to consume your time and rob you of the energy you need for the more important things. (Phil. 1:10) d. If possible, set aside time during which you have few interruptions. e. Let others know that you need time to concentrate. f. Consider turning off your phone and checking your e-mail or social media at a later time.* 5. Focus on the outcome a. The result, or outcome, of your decision is like the destination of a journey. If you really want to reach that destination, you will keep going even if a road is closed and you thus must change your route. b. In the same way, if we focus on the outcome of our decisions, we will not give up easily when we encounter setbacks or detours. (Gal. 6:9) “So let us not give up in doing what is fine, for in due time we will reap if we do not tire out” WHAT YOU NEED TO COMPLETE WHAT YOU STARTED • The more we apply the wisdom found in God’s Word, the better we become at making good decisions.—Heb. 5:14 “But solid food belongs to mature people, to those who through use have their powers of discernment* trained to distinguish both right and wrong” • Making good decisions is difficult, and implementing them can be a challenge. • But with Jehovah’s help, you can gain the wisdom and strength you need to complete what you start!

Before learning the bible, i would marvel at philosophers, motivational speakers, etc. and their 'wisdom'. Thankfully, i now know that every so called wise saying, is just an interpetation of what the bible already said. Please post a worldly saying...along with a scripture... that said it first. I'll start with one by Abraham Lincoln, who once said: "It's better to remain silent and be thought a fool...than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt." Well, the bible already said it... Proverbs17:28 "Even a fool who keeps silent will be considered wise, And the one who seals his lips, discerning".