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Thursday, October 25

Cross over with me, and I will supply you with food in Jerusalem.—2 Sam. 19:33.

 

Barzillai declined the offer. Why? Because of his advanced age, he told David that he did not want to become a burden to the king. So Barzillai recommended that Chimham, presumably one of his sons, take his place. (2 Sam. 19:31-37) Modesty helped Barzillai to make a reasonable decision. He did not turn down David’s invitation because he felt inadequate to shoulder responsibility or because he wanted to enjoy a quiet life in retirement. He simply recognized and accepted his changing circumstances and his limitations. He did not want to take on more than he reasonably could. (Gal. 6:4, 5) If we focus on position, prominence, or recognition, it only provides a breeding ground for egotism, competition, and eventual disappointment. (Gal. 5:26) Modesty, however, helps all to focus their collective abilities and efforts on bringing glory to God and doing what is best to help others.—1 Cor. 10:31. w17.01 4:5, 6

For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.

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Modesty helped Barzillai to make a reasonable decision. He did not turn down David’s invitation because he felt inadequate to shoulder responsibility or because he wanted to enjoy a quiet life in retirement. He simply recognized and accepted his changing circumstances and his limitations. He did not want to take on more than he reasonably could.

 

youth, over confidence and plenty of False energy have led me to over extend many commitments once made in good faith.  I too have learned that just because eagerness is there it must have that added quality of energy and endurance to see it through.  So hard to balance these so as not to disappointment others and yourself.  I’ve always likened it to a  ‘classroom mom’ phenomenon.  AlwYs signing up, volunteering for everything that comes along and not focusing on what is truly important and necessary.  Me, the one known for hospitality, entertains and taking a lead in organizing and planning now has to unwillingly cut back.  I have to actively remind myself that my circumstances have changed.  Now need to make sure it is my meetings, service, personal study that comes first and not the hospitality and icing on the cake activities.  Leave if for the younger sisters or volunteer to assist to act as a planner.  

Son, we will all have that youth and unlimited energy again. 

 

 


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