Sunday, January 9 Be quick to listen, slow to speak.​—Jas. 1:19.

[Poly Ester]

Sunday, January 9

Be quick to listen, slow to speak.—Jas. 1:19.

 

We need to be patient because it takes time for a person to heal spiritually. Many formerly inactive ones admit that they responded only after repeated visits by the elders and others in the congregation. A sister named Nancy, from Southeast Asia, writes: “A close friend in the congregation helped me a great deal. She loved me like an older sister. She reminded me of the good times we shared in the past. She would listen patiently as I expressed my feelings, and she did not hesitate to give me advice. She proved to be a true friend, ready to help at any time.” Empathy is like a powerful ointment; it can help to heal hurt feelings. Some inactive ones have struggled for years with bitter feelings toward someone in the congregation. These feelings have stifled the desire to return to Jehovah. Some may think that they were treated unjustly. They may need someone who will listen to them and understand their feelings. w20.06 26 ¶10-11

[Girl81]

I have found this Scripture to be so helpful throughout the years.  I find myself reminding myself of it frequently.  Jehovah is brilliant, best instructor ever. ❤️