“A Bowl of Soup – How Quickly We Judge … and How Jehovah Truly Sees”

[Hubi]

Dear brothers and sisters,

please imagine the following scene…

An elderly woman goes into a fast-food restaurant.
Perhaps it was a cold day.
Perhaps she was tired.
Perhaps she was lonely.

She buys herself a bowl of hot soup.
Slowly… carefully… she carries the steaming bowl to a small standing table.
She hangs her handbag underneath it.
Everything neat. Everything in its place.

But then she notices:

“I forgot my spoon.”

So she goes back once more.

It takes only a moment.

But when she returns…

…her heart nearly stops.

Because at her table… stands a stranger.

An African man.
Dark skin. Curly hair. Bright clothing.

And what is he doing?

He is eating HER soup.

Just like that.

Spoonful after spoonful.

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What would probably be our first thought?

Perhaps:
“I can’t believe this!”

Perhaps:
“How rude!”

Maybe even:
“Typical…”

And that is probably exactly what the woman thought.

But then something remarkable happens.

She says nothing.

She does not scream.

She does not make a scene.

Instead…

she smiles.

And begins dipping her own spoon into the bowl as well.

Both stand there.
Two complete strangers.
Eating from the same bowl.

Quietly.

Without words.

After the meal, the young man even buys her a coffee.

Then he politely says goodbye.

And leaves.

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But when the woman now reaches for her handbag…

…it is gone.

Vanished.

And in that moment she thinks:

“Of course!
A thief!
A swindler!
I should have known!”

Her face turns red with shame… with anger… with disappointment.

But then…

she looks toward the next table.

And there stands…

her own bowl of soup.

Untouched.

Gone cold.

And underneath it…

hangs her handbag.

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Dear brothers and sisters…

suddenly she realizes something humiliating:

He had not eaten her soup…

SHE had eaten HIS soup.

He had not been rude…

he had not been disrespectful…

he had not been the thief…

she was the one who had thought wrongly.

And the man?

He had noticed it…

and still remained silent.

Still shared.

Still smiled.

Still showed love.

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How deeply this story touches us, doesn’t it?

Why?

Because it shows us:

How quickly humans judge.

How quickly we think we know.

How quickly we evaluate motives.

How quickly we place others into mental categories.

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The Bible fittingly says in:

James 1:19

“Every man must be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.”

But how often is it the opposite?

How often are we:

quick to judge…

quick to think…

quick to conclude…

and slow to understand?

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Jehovah sees differently

Jehovah never judges hastily.

Jehovah never looks only at the outward appearance.

Jehovah always sees deeper.

In 1 Samuel 16:7 we read:

“Man sees what appears to the eyes, but Jehovah sees into the heart.”

What a beautiful thought.

Humans see skin color.
Humans see clothing.
Humans see appearance.
Humans see mistakes.

But Jehovah?

Jehovah sees the heart.

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How quickly one can be wrong

That woman was sure.

Absolutely sure.

She thought:
“I know exactly what is happening here.”

But she was completely mistaken.

And brothers and sisters…

how often does exactly that happen in life?

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Perhaps we see a brother or sister and think:

“Why does he not greet me anymore?”

“Why does she seem so cold?”

“Why was that so unfriendly?”

“Why am I being treated that way?”

And immediately thoughts arise.

Feelings.

Perhaps even hurt.

Yet how often do we not know the whole story?

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Perhaps the sister is battling depression.

Perhaps the brother had a terrible night.

Perhaps someone is carrying pain inside that no one sees.

Perhaps someone cries at night while smiling during the day.

And we?

We judge only by the moment.

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Illustration

A man sees a young boy outside kicking a tree.

Again and again.

Angrily.

Aggressively.

The man immediately thinks:
“What a badly behaved boy.”

But then he hears the boy sobbing and saying:

“Dad… why did you die?”

And suddenly…

everything changes.

Suddenly one realizes:

He knew nothing.

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Is that not often the case?

We see behavior…

but not pain.

We see reactions…

but not the tears behind them.

We see words…

but not the battles in the heart.

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Jesus never judged hastily

Think of Jesus.

How often he could have judged people wrongly.

But did he?

Never.

When everyone looked down on the sinful woman…

Jesus saw her heart.

When others despised Zacchaeus…

Jesus saw willingness to change.

When Peter failed…

Jesus saw potential.

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Why do we sometimes judge too quickly?

Often because we think:

“My perspective is right.”

But brothers and sisters…

our perspective is only one small part.

Only Jehovah sees the whole picture.

Proverbs 18:13 says:

“When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, it is foolish and humiliating.”

How true.

That woman in the story had “answered”…

internally.

Before knowing all the facts.

And how humiliating it became later.

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Perhaps we ourselves have been that woman

Perhaps we too have been misunderstood.

Misjudged.

Misread.

And how painful that is, isn’t it?

When someone thinks about us:

“He is unfriendly.”

“She is arrogant.”

“He thinks he is better than others.”

Even though they do not know our heart.

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And perhaps…

we too have reacted like the young man.

Stayed silent.

Though treated unfairly.

Remained patient.

Remained kind.

Showed love.

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What humility that man had

Imagine:

He probably knew immediately:

“This woman is taking my soup.”

And still…

no anger.

No argument.

No fight.

No embarrassment.

Only kindness.

Only sharing.

Only love.

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Is that not exactly the kind of love Jehovah wants?

Romans 12:10

“In brotherly love have tender affection for one another. Take the lead in showing honor to one another.”

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Additional Illustration

A man holds up a carpet from underneath.

From below one sees only:

Knots.
Loose threads.
Chaos.
Disorder.

One thinks:
“How ugly.”

But when he turns it over…

suddenly there appears:

A beautiful pattern.

A masterpiece.

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Often we see only the underside of people.

Only the chaos.

Only the loose threads.

Only the mistakes.

But Jehovah sees the finished pattern.

Jehovah sees the whole heart.

Jehovah sees the pain, the struggle, the story.

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What do we learn from this?

Before judging…

we should ask:

“Do I really know all the facts?”

“Do I know what this person is going through?”

“Am I seeing with Jehovah’s eyes or only my own?”

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And one deeper lesson

Perhaps you are here today…

and sometimes feel like that young man.

Misunderstood.

Misjudged.

Overlooked.

Wrongly evaluated.

Then never forget:

Jehovah knows the truth.

Jehovah sees your heart.

Jehovah knows your motives.

Jehovah knows who you truly are.

Even if others misunderstand you.

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Psalm 139:1–4 says:

“O Jehovah, you have searched through me, and you know me…
You are familiar with all my thoughts.”

What comfort.

Humans may think wrongly about us.

But Jehovah never does.

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Conclusion

Dear brothers and sisters…

the next time we are tempted to judge someone quickly…

let us remember:

a bowl of soup.

An elderly woman…

who thought she knew everything.

But in reality had misunderstood everything.

And a young man…

who showed love despite being treated wrongly.

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May we always ask ourselves:

“Am I eating from the wrong bowl?”

“Am I judging too quickly?”

“Am I seeing only a moment or the whole heart?”

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And may we learn…

to see more like Jehovah sees.

With patience.

With understanding.

With compassion.

With love.

Because then…

we will not judge others hastily…

but will treat them with the same loving heart

with which Jehovah treats us.

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Because sometimes…

the greatest mistake is not
that someone did something wrong—

but that we thought we were right… when we were wrong.