Thursday, October 29 The thoughts of a man’s heart are like deep waters, but the discerning man draws them out.​—Prov. 20:5.

[Áine]

Thursday, October 29

The thoughts of a man’s heart are like deep waters, but the discerning man draws them out.—Prov. 20:5.

 

What should you learn about the other person during courtship? Before you become too emotionally involved, you may want to discuss some important matters, such as the other person’s goals. How can you get to know what the other person is like deep inside? One of the best ways is to talk openly and honestly, to ask questions and really listen. (Jas. 1:19) To that end, you may find it helpful to engage in activities that lend themselves to conversation, such as eating together, taking walks together in public areas, and preaching together. You can also learn about each other when you spend time with friends and family. Additionally, plan activities that will show you how the other person acts in different circumstances and with different people. w24.05 27-28 ¶6-7

[Seasider]

There are many situations where we can apply this verse , and the comment homes in on courtship. There certainly we need discernment, to see beyond what a person shows on the surface and learn what they really are deep down. Sadly a lot of women have experienced what verse 6 says .

“6 Many men proclaim their loyal love,

But who can find a faithful man?”

 

We do well to use our head as well as our heart in such matters . Even then , choosing a mate is a bit of a minefield, if I may say that…