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Forgiveness Frees the Heart to Love Again


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a Scriptural Consideration entry

 

He sat alone on a stone wall just outside the city. The scabs on his back still ached from his latest flogging, but the deeper wounds were elsewhere—betrayal, slander, disappointment. Paul had poured himself out for these congregations, risked his life again and again, only to be questioned, misrepresented, even opposed by those he called brothers. Was this the reward for his sacrifice?

 

And yet… he would write to them again. He would visit again. He would call them “beloved.”

 

Paul’s life was not defined by the pain others caused him but by the forgiveness he continually chose to give. When Mark disappointed him, Paul didn’t wall off his heart forever. Years later, he would call Mark “useful to me for ministering.” (2 Tim. 4:11) When Peter acted out of fear, Paul corrected him, yes—but then continued serving shoulder to shoulder with him. Paul endured being misjudged, yet he wrote passionately about the unity of the body of Christ. (Rom. 12:4, 5)

 

“Continue . . . forgiving one another freely.”—Col. 3:13

 

So what about us? We, too, are surrounded by imperfect people—some impulsive, some fearful, some stubborn or critical. At times, the wounds from a brother’s words may seem deeper than those from the world. What will help us endure with peace and joy? The same thing that helped Paul: love. Love that remembers the good. Love that believes change is possible. Love that keeps reaching out, keeps serving, keeps forgiving.

 

In our congregations, this kind of love does not come naturally. It must be cultivated through prayer, humility, and meditating on Jehovah’s own patience with us. (Ps. 103:10-14) Jehovah sees it every time we choose to let go of a grievance, to respond gently, or to trust again. He sees—and he smiles.

 

Continue forgiving one another freely. The words are not a suggestion. They are a call to imitate the One who forgives most freely of all.

 

Jehovah will never stop forgiving you. Will you, then, stop forgiving your brother?

 

Let the peace of the Christ truly rule in your heart again.

 

w24.03 15 ¶4-5


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Thanks again David 👍. The connection between cultivating love “through prayer, humility, and meditating on Jehovah’s own patience with us”, and getting to trust others again is a great point. Getting back to basics is very beneficial.

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I am going through something right now that most might consider a small matter, but it hurt me nevertheless.  

 

These words made me cry, "

Continue forgiving one another freely. The words are not a suggestion. They are a call to imitate the One who forgives most freely of all.

 

Jehovah will never stop forgiving you. Will you, then, stop forgiving your brother?"

 

I am still crying over what happened because I didn't expect it and I didn't react or try to correct the matter on the spot.  This brother, on the other hand, showed me by example how to conduct myself when we went out during the preaching work, and here, I felt like he violated me.  I don't want to keep a score card.  I just want to move on, but, honestly, it hurt me.  It embarrassed me, and he doesn't even know how much he hurt me.  I don't want to remember but I can't forget what happened.  However, I honestly believe I have to let this go somehow.  I don't know how, except to keep praying about it.  Hopefully, one day soon Jehovah will let me see how I grew from this experience.  I don't expect this to happen again (trying to be positive here).

 

Thank you for sharing this thought.  It does give me reason to pause and reflect how much I have sinned against the Almighty, in the past, now, and I'm sure in the future, and how much patience Jehovah exercised towards me.  My current inclination is to try to have a civil discussion about the matter.  My guts tell me to let things ride and should something else come up again.  So, for now, I'll let it ride (even with tears).  

 

Thank you, once again.  

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