Part of the problem comes down to semantics with the word "should instead of must". This is where so-called gray area could come in. If we break down the word "should" there are two definitions:
used to indicate obligation, duty, or correctness, typically when criticizing someone's actions.
"he should have been careful"
used to indicate what is probable.
"$348 million should be enough to buy him out"
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That being said, some are saying or forming the view (opinion) that a meeting for service is part of a program. I'm not saying it is or it is not. I have already mentioned when our CO showed up before this announcement he often wore a sweater with a tie. If a sister "should" wear a skirt or dress on stage for a part, how about out in service if there are no brothers present to conduct the meeting for service?
Right now there are different views or opinions and everyone has a right to their view. I want peace in the Congregation where I live as the rest of you do. We didn't have these choices just a few months ago. It will take time for everyone to adjust. Some are growing beards, some not. Some sisters are wearing dress pants, some not. I am just thankful there is forum like this where we can talk about it respectfully.
I thought of 2 Corinthians 13:11 when it comes to this discussion and other changes we have seen. Paul wrote "Finally, brothers, continue to rejoice, to be readjusted, to be comforted, to think in agreement, to live peaceably; and the God of love and of peace will be with you."
I was thinking of Thomas, all the other faithful apostles saw Jesus, but Thomas. No matter what they told him, he would not believe. Did Jesus reappear quickly to Thomas? No, it was 8 days later, it must have felt like an eternity to Thomas. Jesus could have appeared to Thomas privately, but no he waited. During those 8 days did the other apostles keep speaking about seeing the glorified Jesus? My point? Not all are going to accept or understand a situation or directions the same. Just because Thomas did not see Jesus and had to wait to see him, did he lose faith?
Will there be some future clarifications on dress? Possibly. To me it's a small thing. I just want to be obedient, peaceful and be faithful. Again I appreciate all the different views that are presented here.