“They say if your hand is bigger than your face, you have cancer.”

At some point, many of us fell for that playground prank—only to be met with a swift palm to the face. But beyond childhood antics, “They” seem to have a lot to say.

“They say breakfast is the most important meal of the day.”

“They say lightning never strikes the same place twice.”

“They say good things come to those who wait.”

Who are they? Are they scholars, scientists, wise old sages? Or are they just a convenient way to pass along whatever sounds reasonable in the moment?

The Power of “They”

Using “They say” gives weight to an idea without requiring proof. It’s an invisible panel of experts, always present but never accountable. It’s conversational glue, making opinions sound like established facts. Sometimes, “They” represent genuine wisdom passed down over generations. Other times, it’s just a cover for hearsay, half-truths, or outright nonsense.

“They say we only use 10% of our brains.” (False—every part of the brain has a function.)

“They say swallowed gum stays in your stomach for seven years.” (Also false—it passes like anything else.)

“They say cracking your knuckles causes arthritis.” (Not true—but it does annoy some people.)

When “They” Get It Right

Despite the misinformation, sometimes “They” are onto something. “They say actions speak louder than words.” That’s biblical wisdom wrapped in common sense. “They say you reap what you sow”—that sounds a lot like Galatians 6:7. Perhaps some of these sayings persist because they echo universal truths that Jehovah has already taught us.

Testing the Source

The next time someone says, “They say,” ask, “Who exactly?” It’s a good reminder to be discerning, to test what we hear, and to seek wisdom from reliable sources—especially Jehovah’s Word. Unlike the ever-changing, faceless “They,” the Bible gives guidance we can trust. As Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, trusting in Jehovah—not just human sayings—will make our paths straight.

So the next time “They” have something to say, take a moment to find out if it’s really worth listening to.

Thanks to the @Qapla Monday Night chat group with @Piano Man, @Sheep & @just1-4all.