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I want to get married, but should I wait until the new system?


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Hello friends! My name is Dayja, I’m a 28 year old sister, I’ve been baptized for 6 years. I have always desired to have a mate, but I have not had success with finding one. I’ve actually never had a relationship or dated seriously. It has been somewhat discouraging, because I have felt overlooked, while some sisters are able to get attention from brothers more easily. My main concern at this time, is to focus on my spiritually and do more for Jehovah, as well as adopt qualities that would make a better wife, as well as work on my physical appearance. However, the desire for mate is still strong and sometimes I worry if I will ever find true love, but I determined to wait on Jehovah. Which brings me to my question for those who are married who have felt like me, if you were to go back, would you get married again? Did married life make you happier? Or would it be better for me to wait until the new system to get married?

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7 hours ago, DayjaJW said:

My main concern at this time, is to focus on my spiritually and do more for Jehovah, as well as adopt qualities that would make a better wife...

That's the best thing to do. Jehovah will provides when you don't expect it.

 

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Which brings me to my question for those who are married who have felt like me, if you were to go back, would you get married again? Did married life make you happier? Or would it be better for me to wait until the new system to get married?

- Yes.
- I was already happy. It just bring a different kind of happiness.
- No one can answer this question in your behalf. Rejoice in Jehovah, he will bring you opportunities.

Just make sure any potential mate LOVES JEHOVAH more than you :) 
 

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