You do you.
There are a number of sisters I know that are "single for life." They have concluded they will never find the perfect man in this system and so are resolved to be single in this system of things. They are living their best life to the full. While I am sure they have their moments of loneliness, they do not dwell on these moments. They are not sitting at home pining. They do not complain loud whenever there are talks or Watchtower articles about marriage. Their single state is not the focus of their lives. They are too busy living their best life.
On the other hand, I am married because I met someone, a woman (duh) that I wanted in my life forever. I've had other friends come and go and this made me sad. When my wife entered my life I was not interested in marriage and we were friends for a long time. It was only when I realized that, since friends can come and go, I needed to do something permanent if I wanted her in my life permanently.
We've been married 23 years this June.
You do you.
A brother on a different board long time ago said he was given advice to choose a spouse from among his friends. That is the best advice anyone seeking a mate can get. Be friends first. Maybe not even think about marriage. None of us need to be married, but all of us need friends, even if that's just 1 or 2 people. If you are friends first, that's actually easier to choose to marry because our spouse needs to eventually be our closest friend.
You do you. Live your life. Live your best life. Be happy with who you are right now. If you can't be that, then change the things you can change to become happy with yourself. You can't change your marital status by yourself, so that is out of your control. What is in your control is changing your life so that you are happy with yourself. Pioneer. Take that trip. Choose that job. Simply your life. Take that class. Be a need greater. Be a solid publisher. Write that book. Adopt that child. You do you. Be happy with yourself. Be content with yourself. Feel good about yourself.
If you meet someone you want in your life forever, then take the next step and see if he feels the same. If you never meet someone this side of Armageddon, that's fine. Water off your back. No sweat. C'est la vie. You are still happy and have a full life.
You do you. We live our lives in the moment. Jesus said don't worry about tomorrow. Just focus on today. Make today your best day. One day at a time.
You do you.