You started the topic asking for other’s thoughts because two brothers are “harassing” you.
Are you looking for honest feedback or are you looking for others to agree with your own viewpoint?
You’ve received a lot of thoughts based on Bible principles. Some of your replies are coming across as defensive of your own opinion on it. I’m sure that’s not what you intend. And no one is trying to judge you. They are showing how following Bible principles means you will be guided by local customs.
All anyone is saying is….it depends. It depends on the area you live. The elders in your congregation can help you best determine if you can have a nose ring and still have privileges. If they don’t have a problem with it, then it’s a non issue. You can refer any complainers to the elders.
However, if the elders feel it’s a little edgy for your area or if there is hesitation on their part about it, then it would be wise and mature of you to not wear the nose ring. No need to make waves and disrupt the peace just for a personal opinion or right.
Thoughts and opinions change over time. Perhaps now just isn’t the right time for you to wear one.
Again talking with your elders is the best approach. Trying to convince everyone here that it’s ok for you in your local congregation won’t really get you anywhere beneficial.
Also, the more ‘attitude’ one has towards those who don’t agree with them, the more others may feel the person isn’t behaving in a mature way. So if you do have brothers or even sisters saying something to you about the nose ring, it would be good to always respond kindly.
Some articles and points to consider:
https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/2009126?q=difference+of+opinion&p=par
Encouraging us to take into consideration the effect that our actions have on others, the apostle Paul wrote: “All things are lawful; but not all things are advantageous. All things are lawful; but not all things build up.” Paul also said: “Keep from becoming causes for stumbling.” (1 Cor. 10:23, 32) In matters involving personal preferences, then, it is the course of wisdom to ask ourselves: ‘Am I willing to forgo certain rights when the peace of the congregation is threatened? Am I prepared to conform to Bible principles, even when it is inconvenient to do so?’
https://wol.jw.org/en/wol/d/r1/lp-e/2022525#h=14:0-15:0
We build up our brothers and sisters when we actively promote peace in the congregation. We do not allow differences of opinion to divide us. And we do not insist on our rights where no Scriptural principle is at stake. Consider an example. The congregation in Rome was made up of both Jewish and Gentile Christians. When the Mosaic Law was done away with, the restrictions it had placed on eating certain foods were no longer in force. (Mark 7:19) From that time on, some Jewish Christians felt free to eat all kinds of foods. Other Jewish Christians, however, could not bring themselves to do so. The congregation became divided over this issue. Paul underscored the importance of keeping peace and observed: “It is best not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything over which your brother stumbles.” (Read Romans 14:19-21.) Paul thus helped his fellow believers to see how damaging such disputes were to individuals and to the congregation as a whole. He was also willing to change his own behavior to avoid stumbling others. (1 Cor. 9:19-22) We can likewise build others up and maintain peace if we refrain from making issues over matters of personal preference.