Well that phrase seems “ I can’t seem to catch a break”…. Seems to be a common sentiment today. I was talking to a close friend who just went through SKE.. They have been assigned to a small town, they have to rent out their condo at below what their mortgage payment is. The only place they can find to rent is a small basement suite with not even a stove. Work will be a challenge in a small town….
The expression conveys exhaustion, frustration, and the sense that circumstances are unfairly stacked against him.
So basically he doesn’t feel that he is being blessed.
So we discussed what were some of the needs that he has been looking for in awhile…not the external ones were people notice you.. but what you really need.
Breaks do come….sometimes not in circumstances, but in the form of inner peace (Philippians 4:7).
7 and the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your mental powers by means of Christ Jesus.
So when someone says “I can’t seem to catch a break,” they’re expressing the fatigue of constant setbacks.
But it can also be an opening for encouragement … reminding them that while external breaks may be rare, internal and spiritual breaks (peace, resilience, hope) are always available.
Think of life as climbing a steep hill. Saying “I can’t catch a break” is like noticing there’s no flat spot to rest.
But spiritually, prayer and friends can become those resting places…even if the hill itself doesn’t flatten right away.
In my friends case moving to a small town will force him to slow down..which he needs. No dragons to slay .. no major issues… maybe even a bit boring.
The small town has many mature ones who have served Jehovah through many trials .. he needs some role models.
So how should we face the seemingly unfairness.. of life
When facing unfairness.. 4 tools
1)Name it honestly: “This feels unfair.”
2)Anchor it spiritually: “But Jehovah sees, and He provides inner peace.”
3)Seek role models: “Others have endured similar trials…I can learn from them.”
4)Reframe the meaning: “This is not punishment, but preparation.”
So, the way to face unfairness isn’t to deny it or minimize it, but to reframe it as part of the refining process. That way, even when external breaks don’t come, the internal breaks….peace, resilience, hope…become the true blessings.
I think of the Apostle Paul the King of “not catching a break” … how many ship wrecks.. how many beatings .. on and on ..
So, Paul’s perspective was not “I can’t catch a break,” but rather:
Phil 4:12-13
12 I know how to be low on provisions and how to have an abundance. In everything and in all circumstances I have learned the secret of both how to be full and how to hunger, both how to have an abundance and how to do without.
13 For all things I have the strength through the one who gives me power.